Get some really great direct work from people who have trained in the process. We are proud to be the founders of the International Jungian Coaching Association, an organization to help elevate Life Coach Training & Certifications in depth coaching model and spiritual psychology. spk_1:   52:09or the opposite. Sharon Kay Julsonnet, B.A., Texas Tech University; M.A., Trinity University So if the ideal guy knocked on the door, you would have to do anything you know, personal development, nothing. We’re getting to know each other and ourselves in always. So we can say that that’s the conscious element. We explain the power of these archetypes to take … May 04, 2020 Season 2 Episode 9. The Divine Other – The Anima/Animus in Romantic Relationships, Your Unconscious in Life Coaching | Psychology of Life Coaching Part 1, How to Choose the Right Life Coach Training, Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein – Humans & the God Complex, Symbols of Transformation in the Lord of the Rings, The Dark Knight and the Joker – the Anti-hero Archetype, International Jungian Coaching Association, How your shadow influences your attraction to the opposite sex. Non attachment is the key because you’re really when you’re attached, you’re actually in fear that you’re not. A lot is that this shadow side is really what we perceived that family dynamic to be rather than what it actually waas. spk_0:   11:38So, you know, one of things young talked about was that it’s, um it’s a force that’s autonomous, which means that it has kind of a life of its own. spk_0:   32:15egos terrified of real love, because it loses because you lose yourself with someone that is a battle inside, saying Hold back, give up too much, right? Nor that infatuation is We think the other person is divine and it’s a misperception, and we fall into that shiny little beautiful ah you know, image of that person and their their bright and wonderful and and then eventually they let us down there. Like the anima, the animus is a jealous lover. And so that’s what I kept creating. And he looks like a Brad Pitt or, you know, someone younger. So a lot of times when we get rejected and relationships, it’s not that you were so terrible, But maybe you were so good that they were like, uh and so, uh, a person can only accept someone else in their life as much as they accept their self. How do we figure out who from our perent paternal figures in our life, who plays out the most inner inner Adam relationship wise? And, you know, I remember when I was single I used to always go for the guy that I couldn’t have. Stage 3 Male and Stage 3 Female partnership is the most common and is the nuclear family model. And we have a great group already. Archetypes. Yeah. Debra Berndt Maldonado & Robert Maldonado, PhD. We create these conditions to it when we were younger, to protect ourselves or to think, you know, in a way, like we strategized the survival mechanisms and our toolkit to keep us from being trapped or from, you know, had a good intention. Anima and animus are no longer functioning as masks, but have become something more like lenses to bring intuitive reality into focus. We can make choices like I want a man whose blah, blah, blah and he has a good job. What do you pushing away? The more unified and simple this partner is, the less complete the projection. And so just to, uh, reiterate, it’s kind of like again that there’s these layers of us, you know, we think we’re so once you know, so simple. And it’s always like trying to, like, warn us of the past and. I have nowhere to go. And it’s not that Oh, I’m a great person and I love myself and I, you know, people like me kind of affirmation. It’s this deeper self and that’s really I mean, imagine that’s what we really want is we want to transcend our ourselves and become immortal, and we want to have that experience in our life, our own immortality. spk_1:   1:6:32Yeah, this is a common stake. Or it might be a need for for nurturing or taking care of. Shut off your phone, go out and date again and find someone else that coach can say, Let’s look at this relationship right now. They become part of who you are, and they give you more energy. You need to go directly to the emotional experience, which means facing your fears right and in simple terms and whatever the fear is of intimacy of love. The unconscious than is going to take the opposite roll. And so then you’re just projecting your saying. And, um, I realized how it was like I had this moment of clarity of my pattern. The anima and animus may help us find passionate relationships, but research shows that there are a lot of things that can destroy them. Would there be a way to work with her animus? But yeah, we kind of you decide which one you are, and there’s four quadrants, and they’re based on the Colby’s attachment styles. spk_0:   50:10and when you have that so level love, it feels as though you’ve known each other forever. Oh, yeah. But when actuality, they held all the power. And so be once you’re aware of that, then you connect with the inner Adam, where we call the inner Adam or the animus, uh, in dreams. It’s not about just thinking positive and putting a vision board up in hoping love comes its’s. And if you think about it socially, that’s what we dio were a woman. Then you’re kind of missing the whole gift of that situation that’s showing you in reflecting. But if you find that kind of, how do we work together? Maybe he really didn’t want to know the answer. Um uh, actually, I feel like my mother has a bigger impact on my romantic relationships than the male figures. You know, not all, not the degrees. And so this is what we’re talking about with the Adam animals. It’s so, um so what does falling in love mean in the animal? This study focused on the relationship between androgyny and the anima and animus, and the relationships between androgyny and the anima and animus and the dependent variables of individuation, psychosocial development, self-actualization, and self-esteem in women. OK, that’s fine. So it’s really important to understand that your past experience isn’t what actually happened. So this is why you know, I want to talk about one of the things that we see a lot is that we either see people really, truly like one. It’s It’s very difficult. spk_0:   45:11Very question. So again we go deep into this work. As with the projected anima, this can lead to unrealistic expectations and acrimony in relationships. And they. Stage 5: Female as equal partner: He sees her as an equal and opposite partner. Change ), You are commenting using your Facebook account. Men and women have both a masculine and feminine side to their personality when they are born. It’s Ah, the two questions is, How were the everywhere do you feel of love? As you do your shadow work and you integrate the shadow, meaning you accept a lot of things that you pushed away, and then you had looked at in your childhood and your past. spk_1:   25:32Yeah, because it kind of brings a lot of stuff up. The other stuff is in constant flux all the time, and so is we’re riding this wave of life. It’s much broader than just the let’s say, the things that happened to us. spk_0:   1:7:15and all the love that you felt in those men were your love. Vs who you know, who you consciously really want. So if you could choose, I’ll be alone. Your parents are the dynamic are reflecting how you in early conceive yourself. They’re templates there were born with them already until the opposite sex parent gives us a lot of information, and we associate the let’s say for a woman the father becomes like their first experience off the animals. Oh, I know what happened to me more like what is the defenses that I built up around love that because of the story that I told myself when I was younger? When you think about the future, you think about the future. — Life Coach Training & Personal Transformation Experts. Anima, Animus, and the Magical Other. Well, here’s the thing. It simply goes into our personal unconscious. That’s cute. Look at the last person you fell in love with. But right now, let’s just keep it simple, and then, well, we can go into more complicated ideas. It’s it’s like drives us to have this resolution of these parts that are unresolved. As they say. In September of 2016, I took a one day course called Conscious Dating and Relating and I learned about the Anima or Animus that can effect how we relate to our romantic partners. In this session, we’ll have a discussion about one of Jung’s concepts – Anima/Animus Archetypes that influence men and women in intimate relationships. spk_0:   14:21have a beautiful force that one shooter find that have that divine expression of masculine feminine connection, but it gets distorted. And how do why There’s something here for me, especially if on a conscious level, you know, Yeah, they’re they’re kind of not, You know that, Not the right. It’s like this. And I’d say, Yeah, and they So did you feel fluffy, Deb? And so it’s, I guess it’s like surrounding the ego, but it’s understanding the ego. And then the 5th 1 was more real but still projecting onto him. You’re not going to be a threat if they’re always running away. And we’re smart and all those things and not, you know, a lot of drama. The anima -- or animus -- becomes a “function of relationship” and a channel for intuition. Does that mean I need to do more shadow work? 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